I’ve been on this blog journey for like 5 minutes…. well literally since mid August and I can really say that I have seen a change in myself. Being able to write about whatever I want is so freeing, its like an online diary of all the things that I love. Never in a million years did I think that I would receive the response and support that I have. Support from people that I don’t actually know and have never even met.
I set up my Mr Mrs Be Instagram page before my blog was even up and running. I think it took me about two months to get the website sorted but from almost day one I had a small group of Instamums backing me up. They have offered nothing but encouragement, support, words of wisdom and guidance. No petty remarks or competitive vibes from them just true inspiration and I’m in awe of how some of them juggle their busy lives filled with motherhood, work, self care, ambition and still produce fantastic content and most importantly…real talk!
This post its self was inspired by a weekly Instagram live stream which is hosted by a wonderful, spiritual, down to earth and hilarious lady called Toni (@mum_life_with_toni). She hosts a segment called Mum chat every Tuesday at 8pm on Instagram and this particular mum chat I’m referring to was all about encouragement.
Encouragement can be something as small as to say something in the morning to brighten someone’s day, a little gesture such as a silly picture to show you support them and what they are doing. The mums I have met on Instagram are such an inspiration to me they have touched my heart, they really have. Starting this blog has opened a door to a world that 6 months ago I never knew even existed. It’s a world filled with, shared woes, powerful poetry, beautiful imagery, strong minds, mothers doing their best and lifting each other up in the process. It’s a world I was truly blind to. I had no idea that there are mummy meet ups or women only dances or empowering talks for like minded ladies. My eyes are now wide open and I’m seeing so much that really makes me happy and has restored my faith in people.
The most beautiful thing that I have found in this world of Instamums however is… honesty. Amongst the mothers that I follow the level of honesty about being a parent is amazing. I thought I was the only parent whose child is like the energiser bunny and can’t sit still, or finds it hard to juggle everything, who isn’t afraid to admit that they struggle sometimes getting their child to do their homework or who has difficulties when it comes to taking time for themselves. The mothers I’m used to at the school gates have afterschool tutoring sessions 4 times a week for their already high flying 7 year olds and quite frankly, even though I am a teacher (education is very important) …. I’m not about that life. I digress, that’s another blog post.
I could really go on forever with this as it’s a subject I feel quite passionately about so I’m going to stop. I just want to say THANK YOU to everyone that has supported me on my journey thus far. You have no idea how much I appreciate every like, comment (my eyes filled with tears after reading my first comment, thanks Cherie x), and heart that I receive.
You may not know it but that one smiley face you send is the highlight of someone’s day.
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What an absolutely lovely post. So much positivity!!!
I am honoured to know I was your first comment ??. I know what it is like putting your heart and soul into your writing and how much that bit of feedback truly means.
I am so glad that you are experiencing the amazing communities behind Instagram… I love watching and reading the stories of parents who are keeping it real, who share their struggles alongside their hardships, it’s refreshing and it is inspiring.
You never know when what you are writing is going to inspire someone. I’ve had people contact me about fly away remarks I have made on Instagram/instastories/on the blog and it truly stops people from being so lonely.
Keep doing what you are doing and know that everything you have written here
About the other women who support and inspire you, many of us feel the same way about you too.
Here’s to keep it real.
Cherie x
Tearing up a little here… I don’t know when I became so soppy lol.
I agree with every word you said. Parenting is hard and like you said its so refreshing and inspiring hearing stories like your own.
Its such a wonderful feeling knowing you have helped someone in some way, without even meaning to.
Thank you for your kind words, it really does fill me with joy to think that I inspire others as that is one of the main reasons i started this blog.
Here’s to keeping it real indeed
xx
Oh woah. You write so beautifully. Glory Jesus I am so humbled by this thank you for your lovely words and I thank God that you have found encouragement in #mumchat and the page. It’s a blessing to be a blessing. I really love your post and keep on going like Cheri said (she’s lovely lady). May you continue to prosper and bless others with your blogs.
Blessings and love. Toni xxxx
Thank you Toni.
So happy that you enjoyed it. I love what you do, really is a blessing the talent you have.
Thank you for your lovely words, Amen amen!
xxx
Love it!!! Your new(ish) blog is fab- keep it up! Next step… a mama meet up x
Thank you so much.
I’ll do my best, lol.
Yep, can’t wait to go to my first one x
Love this post! I’m falling back in love with Instagram. So glad we met over fruit and veg ?
Awww I’m glad to hear that Cee. It can be such a fickle and fake platform but you guys make it special.
So am I xx
Amazing blog post, you write so beautifully and i enjoy reading it.
Keep doing what you love, we’re all here to support you.
Xxx
Thank you for your lovely words, really does mean a lot to me.
So encouraging, thank you
xx
Glad you’re having such a good time blogging. I personally was very paranoid about getting negative comments when I started because…social media but it has been an almost completely positive experience. You have a lovely blog, keep it coming!
Hi Leona,
Its been a joy so far, really enjoyable.
If i get negative comments , I’ll just try and roll with it, can’t please everyone. Glad to hear it has been a very positive experience for you. Thank you so much for reading my stuff and for your kind words.
x